How did you start exploring your submissiveness in D/s play?

I started exploring submissive play within personal relationships and stage performance. I am a natural exhibitionist and have discovered that there is nothing like the intensely focused attention a submissive receives from her Master or Mistress.

What does your sub space feel like?

I adore intense play. I am not shy about going to a darker, stranger, even disconcerting place. Exploring the unknown of others permits me insight into the unknown of myself. I like to push past what I am comfortable with and place myself into territories that are new and delightfully unnerving.

How do you get there?

I have an intense curiosity about the affectation of discomfort, both mental and physical. To be blunt, I am referring to pain. It’s a tricky area of play, but one that requires skill and offers an exceptional path to personal development.

What are your thoughts about switching? How do you play as a top?

To only identify as total sub or total dominant feels too restrictive to me. I am naturally dominant, however, that does not mean I prefer to be of a dominant nature all the time. I like to push myself by experiencing situations outside of my control. Submissive activity allows me the chance to struggle, both with myself and another dominant person. After all, who doesn’t love a good fight?

As a top, I am seductively intense and darkly sensual with a physically aggressive bent. Want to know more? Find out for yourself what makes me so intoxicating…

What is your favorite body part, and why?

I love the throat because it’s such a vital area. It looks and feels so beautiful when adorned by a steel collar or a pair of tightly gripped hands.

What is your favorite S&M activity, and why?

I love restraint/predicament bondage because it creates such an intense foundation of sensual torture which I find exhilarating. Such demanding punishment also allows me to show my Dominant my physical stamina and determination to please to perfection.

Who is your ideal play partner?

My ideal play partner is someone who is versed in D/s play and enjoys a more psychologically intense experience. I want to be tested and called upon to perform with exacting precision. Be warned, I will push the envelope with my Dominant to see how severe you can be. A good submissive challenges her Dominant to new levels of creativity, discipline and skill.

What are your favorite play scenes?

Being a dramatic individual and a notorious chameleon, I am open to any scene. I view the smallest space as a stage so present me with anything you can possibly imagine. The fact that I was a theater/opera major in college is a testament to my enjoyment of performance.

How would you describe your play style?

As a sub, I consider myself very curious, playful and even disobedient when I can, hence my sub philosophy: only a person who has a strong dominant streak can truly enjoy the complexity of being a submissive. A mentally and physically strong submissive offers the Dominant a more complex and pleasing experience. I have discovered that Dominants relish the chance to assert themselves in response to a submissive who feels comfortable “pushing the envelope.” It has been my pleasure to present a challenge to any of the Dominant individuals I have encountered. All in all, my tastes and personality are definitely outside of the box. I’m an unusual person and an unusual submissive. And I would have it no other way.

What are your other passions?

I am the perfect combination of rockabilly pin-up, nerd and creepy girl at heart. I love anything retro/vintage be it clothing, music or cocktails. I enjoy all forms and periods of art (particularly the expressionist period), and if it is bloody, grotesque or in a jar preserved in formaldehyde, I want it.

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